Your real job as a woman is to work on yourself and to fill yourself up and keep your cup ‘FULL’ so that you can do whatever else you need to do for your relationship, or your kids or your job.
Why? Because you can’t give something that you don’t have.
You have to keep your own self ‘FULL’ first.
That’s your most important job as a woman. Nothing else works if this is not done first. Your real job as a woman is to work on yourself and to fill yourself up and keep your cup ‘FULL’ so that you can do whatever else you need to do for your relationship, or your kids or your job, or your family.
We as women should NOT be afraid to look after ourselves and make sure that we are ok.
We should embrace it and considered a compliment if we are “FULL”. We should not be afraid of honoring ourselves. We need to stop thinking that it’s selfish to put yourself first. You need to take care of you first, to keep you whole and healthy. And that doesn’t mean that you disregard everything and everyone. Make sure your cup is full.
Then what comes out of the cup is for everyone, but, what’s in the cup is yours.
What we do as women takes so much energy, so much work from the heart, spirit, and creativity that we HAVE to be responsible enough to take care of ourselves first. And if you don’t do you know what happens? Imbalance.
Imbalance comes and then we look to those around us and we make them responsible for our happiness. We look to our kids, our men, our friends, our family and we start making them responsible for our happiness. We say “I’ve given all this up for you and you’ve got to make this right by me and you’re supposed to make me happy”.
Because we’ve lost our way on how to make ourselves happy. We have to learn to get more balance in each day. When you are more fulfilled it works for everyone. And when you’re not it doesn’t. It’s really that simple.
It does not matter where you come from or what your circumstances are right now. What matters is now this moment and your willingness to see this moment for what it is.
Accept it, forgive the past, take responsibility, and move forward. Take control of your life. Because only you have the power and responsibility to move your life forward and the sooner you get that, the sooner your life gets into gear.
You need to remind yourself every day that you can’t give something that you don’t have. You have to make sure you are ‘FULL’ in order to give to others. You have to make sure that you are happy. Your happiness is what fuels you from the inside. You have a right to be happy.
You have to take care of yourself in order to have the alignment and the power to take care of others at the capacity that you do. Because when you stop taking care of yourself, you get out of balance and you really forget how to take care of others.
It all starts with you.
Keep yourself full.
Because you only win when you’re full. Everyone only wins when you’re full.
We want to hear from you MUMS.
Do you take the time to keep yourself ‘FULL’? If yes, what do you do just for you, to recharge? If no, why?
Comment below and let’s inspire and help each other to find ways to keep ourselves ‘FULL’ – because it’s our time MUMs and we need to stop thinking that it’s selfish to put ourselves first to be “FULL” so that we can do all that we, every day.
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